tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2149515799325468895.post3752964022387606833..comments2012-09-21T19:49:32.425-07:00Comments on LibertyJB and Now E: Baby Update and AnxietyLibertyJBEhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09060911799074389687noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2149515799325468895.post-87818336059750491972011-10-06T23:03:26.021-07:002011-10-06T23:03:26.021-07:00Hi Jessica,
I'm so glad someone else is frett...Hi Jessica,<br /><br />I'm so glad someone else is fretting over connecting with her baby while still pregnant. I was really worried about that, too, and I worried for nothing. Still, the bond takes time. This is something I didn't understand when my sister told me about it. Just think, how do you connect with someone you've never met? Then your baby arrives and you instantly fall in love, but a strong connection? Once your baby gets past the three-month mark, the personality starts to emerge from that noisy, limp sack of bones and goo. Don't be hard on yourself. :)<br /><br />As for the sex, I couldn't stand not knowing until the 20th week. I had a very strong feeling one day around your wedding, actually, that it was a girl. And I thought, "What if that feeling is wrong? Does that mean I'm a horrible mother?" I knew that was ridiculous even as I thought it.<br /><br />Just take one day at a time and go with the flow of emotion and preparation. It's extremely overwhelming so make sure you go at your pace. :)<br /><br />Ellenwind in the sailhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11256219947123453292noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2149515799325468895.post-77239801466831799482011-09-30T20:29:21.064-07:002011-09-30T20:29:21.064-07:00Ooh, I love the new pics!
I don't know that y...Ooh, I love the new pics!<br /><br />I don't know that you need the sex to feel connected...but the kicking does help. Don't worry--it will come. The first time I felt it, it was like butterflies in my stomach. Soon it was keeping me awake! You'll feel it, I promise. Tell John not to hold it over you in too crazy a fashion. You're pregnant--you don't need extra needling from outside! (All that said, yeah, I found out the sexes. As soon as I could!)Terzahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10617301871875902162noreply@blogger.com